shopping is a therapy....or is it?

salam,
MeMbEli-Belah, dah beli boleh cepat-cepat blah dari tempat berkenaan. siapa la agaknya yang mencipta perkataan tu?? mungkin orang yang SELALU kehabisan duit disebabkan tabiat MemBeli tanpa kesedaran. mana tak nya, belanja sakan, bila balik
purse dah ringan. selalunya, kaum hawa la yang terlibat dengan kegiatan ini. apa kejadahnya semua ini??

haha, kenapa aku tulis benda-benda ni. hurmmmmmmmmm??

whether i like it or not, i must admit that i am a true shophahollic. as a proof, i had spent almost RM 300 alone this week for shopping. (habisla kalau mak dengan ayah tau..) that's really out of my budget. however, come to thik of it, i don't really feel bad about spending that sum of money. i don't know why. maybe there's satisfaction in every penny i spent, hmm, i don't know. for me, shopping is the third best therapy for stress. haha, ini adalah senarai top5 macam mana aku mengawal stress.

1. spiritual (solat, mengaji, wuduk)
2. melukis
3. SHOPPING
4. memasak
5. main buaian


persoalannya, betul ke shopping ni dapat legakan stress? majoriti kawan-kawan aku sokong shopping BUKAN terapi untuk stress. tambah stress lagi adalah.

pendapat aku??

yes, shopping is a therapy for me. i gives me the sense of power. power to have what i want, and also the power to control myself. what i want, doesn't necessarily should be possessed. cukup sekadar dapat tengok, belek-belek, tinjau harga, dan tentukan sasaran apa yang aku nak beli. kalo ada duit, beli je, tapi kalau bajet tak mengizinkan sorry, next time maybe.. sapa tau nanti bila ada rezeki, dapat la beli. that's what i mean by having the power to control yourself, your desire. tak semua orang dapat kawal perbelanjaan mereka, antara keperluan atau kehendak. sebab itu, ramai yang ter'lebih' belanja dan akhirnya mendatangkan stress pada diri sendiri. hmm, memang susah nak kawal diri, aku pun sama juga awalnya. tapi as i grow, i learned to shop wisely.

bagi aku, what i shop is what i need. no matter how expensive the things are, if the things are worthy, and still within my expenses, why not?

come again, what had i bought this week. selendang 5 helai, 2 dresses, seluar, accesories (bracellet, necklace, brooch), sandle, and counting...this is some of the thing that i shopped. tak boleh nak tunjuk lebih, sebab most of it are for dinner attire. nanti x surprise pulak.







maybe i'm being bias because i am a shophahollic, but then again, it's up to us to decide. whether shopping really is a therapy or not, ask ourselve..bak kata orang, tepuk dada tanyalah diri sendiri. akhir kata, berbelanja lah dengan bijak..even if you are a shopphahollic!