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assalamualaikum..

''.....You don't let your own problems affect you, you're never out of control, which is good....but, boring."

-anonymous-

Reality hurts. Even if I do want to change, I doubted that much will be changing. Maybe I just settle with being 'boring'. I'm sure, there are someone who can tolerate boring.

-hard truth in a life of budak skema-  

Singapore: the Universal Studio daa..

assalamualaikum..

The Universal Studio Singapore is among places of attraction in Sentosa Island. A great place for family with small children, theme park lovers.

What you need to know:

the blue sky effect

assalamualaikum..

everyone have something that helps to deescalate their stress. religious approach is almost always the effective method of psychotherapy...a way to share your worries and seek for guidance. don't get it wrong, psychotherapy doesn't mean that you're having mental problems, it's just a label on how to tackle your problem psychologically. Other than that, some chose to listen to music, do sports, reading, and the list goes on and on. for me, staring at a clear blue sky soothe me the best. extra effect if the sky is tainted by puffy, fluffy white things called clouds. the best therapy.

*some might find it weird as i tend to smile when i'm soothing. they might think that i'm some kind of alien that was looking a far to wherever or whichever planet i came from...*sigh.. 

lately, i've faced a lot of issue that make me rethink about the path that i chose for my future, the trust, responsibility and hope that i bear. questioning my capability and my choice. things that made me skeptical about my life in the next 3 or 4 years. i was dumbfounded,  lost my motivation. I forgot to look up the sky. because i'm either out early, when the sun hasn't shine, or home late, when sky is dark, or late in the evening, when my body is tired and my stomach almost scream to be fed. that is when i forgot to look up and say 'ahh, the sky is bright'.

and almost always, i seek for guidance to soothe my doubt and worries. and my prayers were answered the very next day. well at least i think that is the answer i'm looking for. i prayed for motivation, and there i got it. the glimpse of the one who have the 'blue sky' effect on me. i never understood, whenever my heart was burdened with problems that demotivates me, i will almost always cross path with the person with that 'blue sky' vibes. and it did uplift my motivation. so that should equals to an answered prayers does it?? 

maybe it means nothing...but for sure, it means something to me. to that 'blue sky' person, thanks for the inspiration. 

bijak..bijak...

salam..


apa itu definisi pandai, bijak, dan yang sewaktu dengannya?
bagaimana kebijaksanaan itu diukur?

berdasarkan keputusan peperiksaan? lagi banyak 'A' yang dikumpul, makin bijak la sesorang itu.
atau...
kejayaan dalam hidup? mempunyai profession yang disegani, punya harta dan wang berjuta..
atau
penghormatan daripada orang di sekeliling? diiktiraf masyarakat, menang pelbagai anugerah dan pengiktirafan..


hmmm...


bagi saya, kebijaksanaan itu adalah keupayaan manusia memproses maklumat yang diterima, memahaminya,  menyimpan dan seterusnya memanipulasikan maklumat tersebut menjadi sesuatu yang berguna untuk diri dan masyarakat. Maklumat yang berguna itulah diangkat sebagai ilmu.

pada dasarnya kita semua makhluk ciptaan Allah yang pandai. Kerna Allah menganugerahkan manusia dengan akal. setiap manusia, paling tidak, akalnya mampu untuk menerima dan menyimpan maklumat yang diterima. apabila kita memahami maklumat tersebut, secara tak langsung proses pembelajaran telah pun bermula. yang membezakan tahap kebijaksanaan manusia adalah